I suppose every young parent goes through this: toddlers get sick constantly, and you end up stuck on family leave. Most managers aren't exactly thrilled to hire young moms, and I'm no exception. That's why I live in absolute terror of my boss. What if he just decides to let me go?
My husband, Mike, calls me a "life deserter." I'm afraid of everything: that our daughter will catch a bug and I'll actually have to call out; that we won't have enough money to make it to payday; that the boss will call me into his office to "give me a piece of his mind," tear me a new one, or strip me of my bonus. I can already hear him at the end of a staff meeting, growling, "And Mrs. Miller, I'd like a word with you."
"Why are you so terrified of Mr. Henderson?" Mike asked, looking bewildered. "At home, you're the drill sergeant. You've got all of us marching in line."
"I know, I know. But honestly, honey, I don't even know why he scares me so much. You never know what he's going to nitpick next, and he always manages to find something."
Mike has a very vivid imagination. Whenever I start complaining, he tries to snap me out of my funk by improvising these ridiculous scenarios. This time, he adopted a completely serious tone.
"Look, it's simple: everyone adapts to their boss. You show them the proper respect. It's a survival tactic. Imagine, for example, a janitor has to go see the head of the maintenance department. Before he goes in, he smooths out his uniform and straightens his hat. He neatly tucks his mop and bucket into the corner of the supply closet and goes in to give a clear, concise report on his progress. And he's not shaking with fear, because he knows he's done a damn good job."
"Sure, it's easy for the janitor. He actually did a good job," I said with a small giggle. "But our boss is impossible to please. Either we're five minutes late, or we miss a deadline, or our work is just 'subpar.' Yesterday at the meeting, he literally called us a gang of criminals. He said, 'You guys would make an excellent heist crew.' We all shouted back, 'Why's that?!' And he said, 'Because you leave absolutely no trace of any actual work being done.' So there you go—I'm a career criminal!"
"Ha!" Mike barked, laughing. "See? The guy has a sense of humor! And here you are complaining. You should have told him, 'Well, Mr. Henderson, at least we're finally experts at something!'"
"Easy for you to say. Dealing with him is like flirting with a crocodile. It's not exactly a barrel of laughs," I sighed. "Sometimes I just want to snap, make a scene, give him an ultimatum... you know, tell him exactly what we all think of him."
"The solution is easy," Mike said coolly. "Why do you think humans evolved to have voices? Specifically so you can tell your boss off to his face. Give it a shot—it'll help."
Our conversation was interrupted by our five-year-old, Sophie. She'd been in her room the whole time, but clearly, she'd been listening. She walked out clutching her doll under her arm and asked quite businesslike:
"Mommy, what's a 'Boss'?"
Our kid has this amazing talent. You'd think she's playing quietly in the nursery while the adults are in the living room, but then it turns out she's heard every single word. She's right in the middle of the "Why?" phase. Constant, never-ending questions.
"Oh, Sophie!" I exclaimed. "A boss is a very grumpy man at work. He's never happy with anyone, and he spends his whole day yelling at people and scaring them. Honestly, he's like a real-life dragon."
"With three heads?" Sophie's eyes went wide with wonder.
"Just one, sweetie. Но he's so mean that everyone is terrified of him. Especially me! Whenever I see him, I get the chills. Brrr!"
"Mom, does your boss bite?" she asked, genuinely curious.
Mike and I doubled over laughing.
"Well, honey, that's the one thing he doesn't do. Thank God, or things would be even worse."
***
A few days later, Sophie woke up with a mild fever. I was hit with pure dread. Preschool was out of the question.
"Why is our luck so bad? How did she even catch a cold? I've been so careful!" I wailed. "What am I supposed to do? Take a sick day? The boss will kill me. Or at the very least..."
"Okay, stop spiraling," Mike said firmly. "Tomorrow, here's the plan: don't take her to school. Just take her to the office with you for the day. I'll drop you both off."
"Are you insane?!" I panicked. "What is he going to say when he sees a kid in the office?"
"You're looking at it the wrong way! If anything, it shows your incredible dedication to the job. Your daughter is sick, but you—the martyr of the workplace—came in anyway. Just watch, he'll appreciate the hustle. He might even praise you!"
Somehow, he managed to convince me.
"Yay! Yay!" Sophie cheered. "I get to go to work! Mommy, will the boss be there?"
"Oh, he'll be there, sweetie. That dragon isn't going anywhere," I laughed, mostly because Sophie looked so hilariously satisfied with the plan.
***
The next morning we got ready, packed a bag of toys, and headed off to "labor." Sophie looked very important and serious, buzzing with the anticipation of a new adventure. She was practically vibrating in her car seat.
Once we got to my cubicle, I sat her down at a desk and gave her some colored markers.
"Okay, sunshine, why don't you draw for a bit while I figure out what's next? Sound like a plan?"
"Mommy, where's the boss?" Sophie demanded. "Why isn't he here?"
"He has his own private office," I explained. "He's working in there. Maybe he'll stop by later. Don't be such a hurry-scurry."
"Fine," she sighed, sounding disappointed. "I guess we'll wait. I really, really want to see him."
She immersed herself in her drawing. Every few minutes I'd steal a glance at her; she was scribbling away with intense focus, sticking her tongue out in that cute way kids do, not bothering a soul. Mr. Henderson walked in just before lunch. He looked his usual self: grumpy, harried, and burdened by the world's problems. I froze.
Sophie looked up, saw him, and immediately scurried over to my side with a look of recognition. She knew instantly that this was the long-awaited Boss. He spotted the little girl and, to my shock, broke into a wide grin.
"And who might you be?" he asked, sounding genuinely surprised.
"I'm Sophie," she stated, frowning slightly. "And you... you must be Mommy's boss?"
"You guessed it," Mr. Henderson smiled back.
"Sophie's a bit under the weather—" I started to explain, but suddenly Sophie grabbed her latest "masterpiece" off the desk and thrust it toward him. The drawing featured a truly hideous, jagged-toothed monster.
"This is you!" my daughter announced proudly. "Well? Do you like it?"
The entire office went dead silent. Everyone was holding their breath, waiting to see how the director would react.
Mr. Henderson studied the paper intently for a moment and then... he let out a sudden, booming laugh.
"It's a perfect likeness! Strikingly accurate! Well done, Sophie, you've got real talent!"
Sophie absolutely beamed at the praise from the "terrible" boss.
After that unprecedented day, Mr. Henderson didn't fire me. Instead, his entire demeanor toward the staff shifted. He became more human—approachable, friendly, and a lot less demanding. As for my paralyzing fear of him? It vanished into thin air.
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