I love your column and periodically read it. I recently read a story about cheating, so I decided to tell you about mine. Maybe someone will look at female infidelity from the outside, and will not throw stones at each of us. I just want people to understand that betrayal sometimes throws despair. So it happened to me. I’ve been married for a long time, almost two decades. Everything in our life has happened. I can’t say that everything was bad or smooth. The only thing that has darkened my life all these years is my spouse’s countless infidelities. We …